Relationship Coach & Expert

Relationship coach, author, creator of the Captivating Courtship Code and host of the Courtship Code podcast. 

What is captivating courtship

Captivating Courtship helps women like you to make a 180 degree relationship transformation.

After spending many years as a Matchmaker —  Relationship Coach Zara J is helping women to meet and marry their ideal partners. Over those years she saw a consistent pattern that helped to crack the code when it came to helping the high achieving, professional women who is tired of having no luck in the love department.

Meet your coach, Zara J

I teach women how to transform the quality of their love life.

Helping my clients grow past relationship disappointments and master how to actually navigate courtship, and attract quality men for commitment.

I’m passionate about helping my clients create happy, healthy, high value love lives with ease so they can live their best life and I can’t wait to help you, too.

What you can expect

Access a highly successful 6 step process that you won’t find anywhere else.

It’s called the Captivating Courtship Code. This code is a blueprint that takes the struggle out of courtship and leads you on a clear path your very own happily ever after.

Just for fun

Fun Facts and a Few of My Favorite things


I love doing the Electric Slide and Cupid Shuffle.


Watching Real Housewives is my guilty pleasure.


Happily married to the love of my life.


I send myself flowers because I deserve it.

Together we can execute your Courtship game plan

Stop Wasting Time Letting Love Come “Naturally,” & Easily Create a Game Plan to Attract Your Mr. Right, Even If You’ve Failed In the Past.