February 20, 2023

BTS Monday Coffee Chat: Reactive communication, Breakups & Misalignment S6E14

In this episode, we dive into setting clear boundaries and knowing when and why you need to lean back to build a sustainable, stable relationship. Join us for this Monday’s Coffee Chat as we explore things you can do before reacting to disrespect in your relationships.

One key to attracting your ideal partner is being clear on your own relationship needs. The more clear you are on your relationship needs, the more intuitive you will be in courtship and choosing the right partner. Clarity will help you narrow down and focus on quality men who desire your authentic value as opposed to men who disrespect your boundaries and ultimately leave you feeling unworthy.

Or maybe you’re attracting good men but they’re just not meant for you.. You probably need to break up with your type?

The Relationship Assessment Call linked below is for career driven millennial women who want to assess their love blocks and have a game plan for courtship.

Time Stamps for the episode:

00:00 – Introduction
4:11 – Why Being Clear on Relationship Goals is Necessary
7:00 – Things You Can Do Before Reacting to Disrespect
8:57 – You Don’t Need To Raise Him
13:07 – How To React To Expectations of Exclusivity on The First Encounter
15:04 – How To Make The Right Choice And Not Regret it
18:35 – Misalignment in Values, Visions, Decisions
22:43 – Expectations of Long Distance Exclusivity
29:29 – How To Score Your Man on The Commitment Scale
33:57 – Why You Both Have To Be On The Same Page
35:12 – What He Might Be Feeling & Why You Should Post In The Group Proactively
37:50 – Know When & Why To Lean Back
43:18 – Your Focus Should Be Alignment
48:00 – Conclusion

Links Mentioned In This Episode:

20 Minute Relationship Assessment Call

Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program

Queen of Courtship Assessment

Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram

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Relationship coach, author, creator of the Captivating Courtship Code

I’m passionate about improving the state of women’s relationships because a happy, healthy, loved and valued woman not only transforms her love life but has the power and impact to transform her family tree for generations to come. 

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