3x-5x Your options for marriage In Just 2 Hours a Week

Captivating Courtship Code

For high achieving Muslim women with anxious attachment who want to embody feminine energy, increase desirability, meet compatible men and navigate courtship for marriage.

when it comes to courtship

High achieving muslim women don’t have time to waste trying to figure out courtship on their own.

 Although everyone admires how accomplished you are, secretly you feel disappointed that you haven’t found the right guy and struggle to find balance and fulfillment in your personal life. Despite your professional success, you find yourself often experiencing relationship anxiety and feeling insecure in courtship situations, and attracting emotionally unavailable men who are not ready to commit.

After a series of disappointments, you now overthink interactions and may have developed a history of codependent relationships. This has resulted in you feeling stuck in your love life, wasting too much time on men who are not serious about marriage, and feeling lonely and frustrated.

 Time is passing by while your friends and family have wedding after wedding and it doesn’t seem as though you are getting any closer to your dream life.

It’s time to embody your true desirability, meet available men, and make attracting the commitment you deserve inevitable.

Not knowing how to actually qualify a man as emotionally available and commitment ready is stopping you from getting closer to all the joy, happiness, abundance and feel good moments marriage has to offer.

 You deserve more.

You are worthy of it.

Yet, going through cycle after cycle of attracting non-committal, emotionally unavailable, even toxic men…or even avoiding men altogether, will really make you question if you truly do deserve love or if a great guy is actually available to you? Especially when you feel like you’ve done the personal development, read all the books, and listened to all the podcasts and videos the internet has to offer.


Can you imagine how it would feel to...

No more trying to DIY your love life

You Need A proven Courtship process!

Letting love come naturally hasn’t worked. It’s led to wasting time and feeling frustrated, rejected, and no longer able to trust that you know what you’re doing, right? Plus, friends and family have given you outdated advice that may have worked for them, but times have changed and their advice hasn’t gotten any closer to marriage.

What you need is a comprehensive and practical approach to the courtship process that dives deep into your spiritual and emotional growth and provides practical strategies to attract a partner who shares your values so you can create the fulfilling life you deserve.


The proven 6 step blueprint that helps High Achieving Muslim women Meet Quality Men, Increase Desirability, and navigate courtship for marriage.

  • 3-5x Your Options for Marriage in 2 Hours a Week
  • Save Time and Learn How To Qualify Men for Commitment
  • Improve the Quality of Your Love Life in Just 8 Weeks
  • Learn a Step-By-Step Courtship Process
  • Feel More Authentic, Feminine and Increase Desirability
  • Learn to Balance Your Romantic Life and Career Goals
  • Create a More Fulfilling Lifestyle that You Love
The Captivating Courtship Code provides successful Muslim women with an anxious attachment style an intimate, safe-space and blueprint to heal, grow, and connect with like-minded women who are on the same path to marriage, and value having high quality relationships and life.
What Makes the courtship code different?

The Captivating Courtship Code is culminated from years of experience as a Matchmaker and client results

The Captivating Courtship Code is derived from a decade of professional relationship industry experience, spirituality, psychology, and proven client results. It is designed as an intimate, intensive solution for the High Achieving woman with an anxious attachment style, like you, that are READY to MAGNETIZE your Love Life, EMBODY your Authentic Value & ATTRACT Compatible Partners for Marriage.

Captivating Breakthroughs

Listen to the amazing results from real women who have been in the Captivating Courtship Code Program

She Got Married, Better Family Relationships, & New Career

Attracted married in a year After heartbreaking Divorce

Investing in my relationships was better than investing in divorce

From Anxious-Avoidant attachment to married in less than a year

Coaching Gave Something Therapy didn't along w/confidence & self awareness

from single to married in 6 months

Here’s How You’ll Crack the Courtship Code…

You’ll heal deep rooted emotional triggers and relationship patterns

so that you navigate the courtship process with a renewed sense of trust in yourself, brave boundaries, and elevated expectations to make high quality relationships decisions.

You’ll gain explosive confidence and unshakeable self worth

 by fully embodying your authentic value and true desirability so you can be in 100% alignment with your Captivating Life while attracting the right partner for you.

You’ll know exact matchmaking industry strategies and techniques

to develop an online and offline attraction plan tailored to your natural energy flow, interests, and lifestyle that will finally make you feel confident and open the floodgates to better options for partners.

Completely re-approach how you approach courtship

by mastering our 5 step courtship blueprint and taking courtship one milestone at a time so that you release anxiety and create real results that move you towards commitment, quickly. 

Exude remarkable feminine energy like the queen you truly are.

Ignite your feminine communication and deeper connections with men with new skills that spark intimacy and inspire masculine men to step up and commit.

Discern how to attract commitment ready men

feel empowered  in your love life with an easy and predictable process to determine if a man is commitment ready and stop wasting your time with situationships, dating burnout & breakups.

What's inside

When You're In You'll Get Access to...

12 month access to our 6 step process and Virtual Training videos

12 months of Weekly group coaching calls

two Private Coaching Calls

guest Coaching Calls and bonus matchmaking strategy course

private podcast with coaching call library

12 month access to our Private online student coaching community

Meet your coach

Zara J - Relationship Coach, Author & Expert

If you want to work with a coach who has been where you are, has successfully found a happy relationship, and has helped successful anxiously attached women attract partners for marriage you’re in the right place.

You will learn my 6 step process to – derived from my years of matchmaking, spirituality, psychology and actual client results to transform how you attract, build connection, and court for commitment.

4 ways you'll know

The Captivating Courtship Code is for You If...


You repeatedly attracting men who are flaky, emotionally unavailable or just not compatible


You are questioning if you're even good enough for the type of men you desire (hint: you are more than enough)


You want to surround yourself with an intimate community of women who you can have transparent conversations with in a no judgment zone


You are committed to dedicating the next 6 months after the program to implementing the process and getting the results that you've been looking for


Captivating Courtship Code group coaching is perfect for you if you’re looking to make major moves in your love life, in the next 12 months.

My Promise to you…

Making the decision to commit to your relationship goals can feel scary. You may even question, “But will this actually work for me?”

That’s why I promise every woman in Captivating Courtship Code coaching that you’ll walk away with 3-5x your options for marriage we will coach you for free until you do. It’s that simple. You commit to the process and do everything within our guidance and you increase your options for marriage and learn a proven courtship process. This way you have everything you need to move the needle in your love life and have skills to attract your match for marriage no matter what.

now is the time

Don't let another year go by feeling anxious and uncertain about your love life

Okay, Beautiful, it’s time to commit to your future. You can continue feeling stuck, lonely, and frustrated or you can learn a practical, step-by-step process to attract a partner for marriage. Many women spend years and lots of money with therapy, seminars, Youtube, and relationship books only to uncover the root of their relationship challenges, but never gaining any real answers or skills to move their love life forward.

That can be true for other women, but it doesn’t have to be true for you. You can make the decision to do something different. By committing to your relationship goals and learning a proven blueprint to transform your love life, you’re saying no to past relationship wounds, and saying yes to your happily ever after.

have questions?

Here's What People love to Ask

Captivating Courtship Code is a group coaching community for anxiously attached high achieving Muslim women who want a practical approach to stop feeling anxious and uncertain, increase options for marriage, increase desirability, navigate courtship for marriage.

If you’re a woman and you feel clueless about how to meet the right partner for you or you experience relationship anxiety, a lack of confidence, miscommunication with men, conflict, rejection, ghosting, cycles of breakups or abandonment, fear of commitment, clingy or neediness, or feeling clueless on what are the next steps to take to improve your love life or attract a relationship this is the program for you.

Coaching is a personal experience and requires you to commit to doing the inner work and taking action. With that said, most women begin experiencing shifts in their love life and personal life within 4-8 weeks of coaching.

Coaching and your transformation is a commitment. If you’re not ready for coaching, you can start your love journey by listening to the Courtship Code podcast on any streaming platform or download one of the free guides provided on this website. You can also join the Love Loops membership to start your journey to love.

Coaching and your transformation is a commitment. We promise clients who implement our guidance and process and attend coaching will 3-5x their options for marriage and improve the quality of their love life and courtship process or we will coach you for free until you do.

The Captivating Courtship Code coaching program is $3000 for 12 months of group coaching and access to the client portal and the CCC peer support community. Payment plans are available.

No, we cannot guarantee you will attract a relationship/marriage. It is up to you to take action and do the inner work to get results. However, you will be provided with 12 months access to the CCC community and client portal. You will learn new skills to 3-5x your options for marriage and navigate the courtship process, and have these skills for life.

On average most women commit roughly 1-2 hours a week to coaching which may be spread across weekly group coaching calls, online community engagement, and Captivating Courtship Code online course.

Absolutely! If you are currently dating or married coaching can help provide the mindset and emotional guidance to help you become the best version of yourself in your relationships. You will receive major benefits learning how to heal your wounds, connect and communicate with your man so you can maintain a happy, healthy relationship and marriage.

About 50% of the women in coaching are in therapy or have done therapy prior to coaching. Therapy is very beneficial to discuss relationships, however, coaching teaches relationship skills and techniques specific to improving the quality and actions of your love life to get results.

Our coaching community and group calls provides the intimacy to bring comfort and connection that will make it easy for you to share and learn along other women. You will also be supported by your coach so you don’t shrink and miss an opportunity for growth.

Apply Today

If you made it this far, we’d love for you to join us. Looking forward to seeing you inside the program.