January 6, 2023

Letting love come naturally is outdated S6E2

Being a matchmaker taught me there’s a luxury in the convenience of having help with love. The successful men and women I worked with as a matchmaker understood the benefit of accelerating their path to love.

Yet they would overcomplicate finding a partner even with help. I realized there were key things happening:

  • Overthinking, Anxiousness and Emotionally Attaching to Outcome
  • Not Actually Being Clear on Right Partners and Courtship Process
  • Confidence on the Outside While Not Feeling Good Enough on the Inside

It didn’t matter who I introduced them to if they didn’t change these things and had the belief that they didn’t need to…they prolonged the opportunity to attracting a partner, unnecessarily. And most importantly, they weren’t getting any younger and in the back of their mind was a time clock and family pressure only causing more stress. So they needed to work with their situation and avoid reality and work against it.

In this episode we discuss why letting love come naturally is outdated and the future of love and relationships for smart, successful women.


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Relationship coach, author, creator of the Captivating Courtship Code

I’m passionate about improving the state of women’s relationships because a happy, healthy, loved and valued woman not only transforms her love life but has the power and impact to transform her family tree for generations to come. 

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