Being a matchmaker taught me there’s a luxury in the convenience of having help with love. The successful men and women I worked with as a matchmaker understood the benefit of accelerating their path to love.
Yet they would overcomplicate finding a partner even with help. I realized there were key things happening:
- Overthinking, Anxiousness and Emotionally Attaching to Outcome
- Not Actually Being Clear on Right Partners and Courtship Process
- Confidence on the Outside While Not Feeling Good Enough on the Inside
It didn’t matter who I introduced them to if they didn’t change these things and had the belief that they didn’t need to…they prolonged the opportunity to attracting a partner, unnecessarily. And most importantly, they weren’t getting any younger and in the back of their mind was a time clock and family pressure only causing more stress. So they needed to work with their situation and avoid reality and work against it.
In this episode we discuss why letting love come naturally is outdated and the future of love and relationships for smart, successful women.
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