June 8, 2022

Moving on from Situationships S5E31

If you have been stuck in a situationship more than once, it’s not by chance, it’s by design. It’s a pattern which you think you can’t break through because running back to the past seems familiar, safe and comfortable.


You’re on the other end of the spectrum trying to desperately move on without resolving and working on your own past relationship trauma. You know you don’t feel valued or respected but you don’t know what to do about it.

Either way, this podcast is for you. In this episode we talk about how to break your own shackles and not just move on but move forward in your love life. A commitment doesn’t just happen, you have to make that decision of committing to commitment till you can say it out loud, “I’m ready to be a wife!”.

When we think we can’t have a happy love life, we’re simply operating from the past. Changing this mindset requires being uncomfortable, coachable and having faith in the possibility, the probability and the inevitability of it all working out for you.

Listen to this episode to get an insight into how to move on from painful and draining situationships and step into your receiving era.

Go to the link below to book a 20 Minute Attract Your Match Game Plan Call to attract the kind of relationship you’ve always wanted to have.

Time Stamps for this Episode:

00:00 – Introduction
3:20 – Running back to the past
3:50 – Detoxing from an ex
4:55 – There is a better relationship for you
5:50 – Why you deserve more than a situationship
7:12 – Fear of abandonment
7:44 – Commitment is your decision
12:00 – What commitment is not about
13:56 – Operating from the past and why its harmful
16:36 – You have support
18:00 – Choosing intuitively and differently
18:40 – You can have the relationship you desire
20:35 – Imperfection is normal
24:30 – The power in community
27:00 – Conclusion

Links Mentioned In This Episode:


20 Minute Attract Your Match Game Plan Call 


Join the CCC Program to be in the driver’s seat of your love life!

Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program 


Queen of Courtship Assessment


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Relationship coach, author, creator of the Captivating Courtship Code

I’m passionate about improving the state of women’s relationships because a happy, healthy, loved and valued woman not only transforms her love life but has the power and impact to transform her family tree for generations to come. 

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