April 3, 2023

Relationship Patterns pt1- Deep dive into discovering your relationship patterns S6E23


The turning point for Zara was hitting her own rock bottom heartbreak. In this episode, she breaks down how and why discovering your relationship patterns could prove to be your turning point too – not just for your love life but your other relationships, your career, your finances, your health and your self image.


What takes you from being a Wounded Princess to a Captivating Queen is healing your inner child. Your inner child has felt insecure, abandoned, ignored, unheard and triggered. This is why, even now, your inner child is running the show. This is why, after all these years of relationships, you could feel like you “ruin” even good relationships even though that’s not your fault you went through all that at such a young age. This is why your inner child needs to heal.


Because you value your love, career, finances and time, learning how to communicate your value to the right types of men is essential so that you can attract the right kind of relationship.


In exciting news, Captivating Courtship is holding a 3 Day Relationship Reset! It will be a 3 day live virtual event and it will leave you with the tools and knowledge you need to reset your love life in the next 30 days. Time for you to get intentional and take action. Allow yourself the opportunity to hit the “RESET” button on your love life!


Time Stamps for This Episode


00:00 – Introduction

1:19 – What Transformed Zara’s Life

3:50 – Why Matchmaking Was A Challenge

5:05 – Turning Point For Zara

5:26 – Why You Probably Sabotaged That Perfect Relationship

8:24 – Zara’s Breaking Point

10:46 – You Are Gonna Have To Do The Work To Bring Change

12:23 – How Zara’s Heartbreak Made Her Feel

14:23 – This Time Zara Focused On Herself

17:14 – Zara & Hypnotherapy

19:50 – Zara’s Decision to Captivating Courtship

21:40 – Patterns

26:22 – Why It Might Not Be Working For You

28:28 – You Don’t Have To Live A Life Of Regret

31:00 – Why Your Inner Child Needs To Heal

33:17 – 3 Day Relationship Reset & Conclusion



Links Mentioned In This Episode


Register for 3 Day Relationship Reset



Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program



Queen of Courtship Assessment


Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram




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Relationship coach, author, creator of the Captivating Courtship Code

I’m passionate about improving the state of women’s relationships because a happy, healthy, loved and valued woman not only transforms her love life but has the power and impact to transform her family tree for generations to come. 

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