So your friends and family been telling you to let things come naturally, again? ? While you sit and stress about your love life and possibly missing out on marriage connection, a family and deep intimacy…they’re telling you to just wait and be patient? Or they’ll pray for you…but no real action being put behind it?
That sounds really good, but let’s talk about the numbers of love…I’ll call this the #50centcourtship
Because letting things come naturally gives you a 50% shot of success…and 50% chance at failure.
Because 50% of women aren’t married by 40 (and if you’re over 40 you already know something needs to shift NOW).
50% of couples meet “Naturally”…public places, work, friends and family…all combined consistent showing up…doesn’t sound to bad, right? 50% chance? Sis, 50% is a failing grade. Plus how many were intentional and ACTUALLY compatible?
Not to mention…50% of people have an insecure attachment style. Meaning you’re 50% more likely to sabotage your courtship/dating life with anxious or avoidant behaviors. Meaning 50% have too many red flags. Yup…HOW you’re showing up and WHO you’re attracted to is on autopilot and likely to end up in a toxic or emotionally unavailable…emotionally unstable relationship due to your patterns…but wait… IF you’re in the 50% of women with relationship anxiety…AND you consistently allow yourself to be in the 50% who meet naturally…PLUS you don’t allow your anxiety to place you in the 50% who will sabotage themselves…then your family and friends are right! Letting things comes naturally should work… But do you want to place yourself in those odds…or do you want to be intentional, break your attraction patterns, and br 100% intentional to shift your love life for good? Are you ready for this year to be the year you break your #50centcourtship cycle and commit to you.
Girl, keep it 100! 100% bet on you! This is your year to shift. Are you ready? DM me to learn how.
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